How do you become indifferent? I think the answer is very, very simple. Yet we make a huge complicated concept out of it because when we reach it we always can say: Look at me I am indifferent and what i did for it. It was so hard to achieve it. Can you let go of that? Because the answer is: You can decide in this moment to no longer care about something. I discouvered this by accident: I played a game that is mostly won by luck and I was very bad because I somehow was attached to it. So one day I decided a fuck it I no longer care about winning this game but kept playing here and there. And suddenly my results went up to the roof. And I was like “What the fuck?” I think the only reason because we care about something is because we enjoy the emotional rollercoaster that is involved with that. So when you allow yourself to let go of that you finally are indifferent. And surprise: It only took a few seconds!

 
 
"Am I happy or am I suffering? If you're suffering, it's because you're telling yourself a story that isn't true, but you believe it."
Do you ever face doubt when you tell yourself affirmations or tell yourself a new story? Often there is this nagging voice in your head telling you: "This is not true!". Lots of people tell you to fight that and tell yourself this is my life but here is a new concept: Like in Aikido you use the power that your oppenent has and direct it in your favour. So instead of fighting it you use the doubt to your advantage! So whenever doubt comes up ask yourself is that what i am telling me right now true? Are those limiting beliefs that i already have true? Why shouldn't i be, have or do what i am telling me? Why shouldn't i have this great life?
And finally you realize you don't have an answer to those questions and if you have doubt them! Becau